A Test is Coming. I’m Going to Die!

A Test is Coming.  I’m Going to Die! 

No.  You are not. doctor-2748707_640

Of course, the alien invasion could happen, and that might change my assessment; however, barring any such strange event, I believe you will live!

The pain comes from fear.  The fear – often – comes from poor preparation. If your test is today or tomorrow, do you best and come back to read this later.

“Over-preparation” is key. 

I’m not sure there is such a thing as over-preparation, but plenty of preparation is essential.   Practise, practise, practise.

For example, if you want to memorize someone’s phone number, would you simply think of it once?


You would “rehearse” it.  You might say it over and over to yourself, or you might simply use the number often enough that it becomes second nature.  Strangely, many people are better at telling you their friend’s phone number or their parents’ phone number rather than their own because who phones themselves?

We remember by “doing” something.

Note: Start today.   Do not wait until a month, a week, or a day before the test.

Practise well. 

Simply repeating something works for a name, a phone number, possibly learning the multiplication tables – but not for everything!

Rehearse with engagement.  Make sure you build that network of knowledge.  When you read your notes….

Yes, he said it NOTES! (Is this a scary Halloween blog!) take notes

When you read and re-read your notes, make sure your brain is fully engaged.  Stop occasionally and ask yourself if you have understood the concepts, themes, mechanics, etc.   It is important to know facts (memorization) but also what to do with this information (connections – networking).

Learn from past tests and experiences. 

When you have material returned to you, don’t just throw it in your binder, in the trash, or under Freddie the budgie!  Do some proactive learning.  Even if you scored 90%, what happened to the other 10% ?  (Congratulations on the 90, by the way).  Are there comments that can help you next time?  Are you now able to complete these same questions without looking? (To really know, you have to really do it.  Try answering the questions and go back to the answers later.)

You might need to talk to the teacher. caleb-woods-182648

You were just starting to feel better, and Ron had to say that!  Don’t panic.  Most teachers don’t eat children (or adults), although some professors might look like they do. Teachers come in all shapes, sizes, and temperaments; however, most teachers are very impressed when a student truly cares about his or her learning.

If there are no comments or other indications on your test, and your score is lower than you would like, see if the teacher can help you find the problems.

Being proactive can take you from being an average student to being an excellent student. (Of course, becoming proactive can take you from a weak student to an average student.  You can then move up from there.)

Being proactive gives you the power.street-workout-2682498_640

Knowing this will help you feel more confident, and confidence will reduce the fear.

Fear is good! 

It’s true.  You want a little fear, or at least stress, so that you are motivated to do what you need to do.  You don’t,however, want too much stress or fear because this will hamper your ability to recall information. and to focus on all those amazing insights and connections you made earlier – or to spell you name.  Yikes.

Recognizing that some fear or stress is normal will make you feel better, too.  It is usually when we feel that something is “out of the norm” that we begin to panic and feel powerless. Don’t let yourself fall into that trap. Don’t listen to anyone who says, “I’m not nervous at all.”  He or she is either in denial or simply does not care much about the exam. Neither is good.

Be yourself and be comfortable with that.

Let’s recap:

  1. You will not die.
  2. Be proactive.
  3. Prepare, rehearse, and engage.
  4. Network your knowledge.
  5. Learn from past tests and assignments.
  6. Teachers do not eat people.  Talk to them.
  7. Fear is good (limited dosages).
  8. You have the power!

Look for further tips on this blog site or on my YouTube channel.

This week’s video:  A Test is Coming!

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That Horrible “A” Student! I Hate Him.

That Horrible “A” Student!  I Hate Her. 

How does he do it?

She is always on the top!

He just knows the answers!

She never has to study.

I hear these comments from students all the time. If you are a parent or teacher, I’m sure you do as well.ladybug-158326_640

It’s a modified case of “the grass is greener on the other side.”

Those “A” students simply have it easier.

But, they don’t!

I have met several of these students who “don’t have to study” or “just know the answer” except they actually do study; and, by their own admission, they often don’t already know the answers.

They had to work!

Sometimes it’s mom and dad who lay down the law and make sure that there is a set time every day for homework – often more than the recommended amount of time.

Sometimes the student himself or herself takes the initiative and applies solid study skills and strategies.

You aren’t crazy!normal_crazy_mean_dog

Well, I can’t guarantee that without having met you, but you aren’t crazy on this point.  Many of these “A” students don’t want others to know that they spend time studying and practising.  Some of them will go out of their way to conceal such “horrible” aka GREAT habits.

Students don’t always want to admit that they care about school or their studies.  They often want to “fit it” and agree with fellow students who complain and whine about assignments, teachers, etc.

Other times, they want it to seem like they are simply geniuses and the answers fall from the sky like rain.  Wouldn’t it feel good if you could pretend to your friend that you simply KNOW the answers with little or no effort?


This week’s video:  Horrible “A” Students. I Hate Them!

So don’t be fooled.

Those “A” students don’t have it as easy as you think.

Having said this, once a student begins down the road of being an “A” student he or she will find learning faster and easier.  Just as with any skill, practising and discovering new strategies will make you better and more efficient.

The network of knowledge becomes wider, deeper, and richer.  In other words, the more you know – the more you will know because you will begin to make connections that build your knowledge structure.  This, in part, is what those “A” students are doing.

Once these habits, strategies, and networks are in place sometimes it does seem like magic even to the “A” student.  Someone asks them, “How do you know that?” “I don’t know how I know.  I just do.”

After that conversation, who could blame you for thinking that it is magic, luck, or genes?

Sometimes they study without even knowing that they are studying. If they have a keen interest in a particular subject they are probably reading every book and article they can find because they love it.  They are watching videos, television programs, and movies about the subject.  They are talking to others about it.

Then, “I didn’t study” is not quite accurate, although they might not feel like they have been studying.  Still, they are getting all the same benefits.

They are reading and re-reading.  Each article or book will review and add to their foundation of knowledge.  They will be reciting by talking to others who love the same topic.  So they are questioning, reading, reciting, and reviewing.  Remember the SQ3R Method I wrote about last week?

They are doing it automatically.

What can you do to become one of the horrible “A” students? Creativity Idea Inspiration Light Lightbulb Bulb

It’s easy.  Well, relatively easy to get started at least.

Give up the idea that “others” have it easy, and there is nothing you can do.  That is simply not true.

Start building your network of knowledge using tried and true learning strategies.

It would not hurt to “get interested.” Sometimes you have to fake it until you make it – but generally, with a little effort, you can find a key to begin liking – dare I say loving – a subject.

Approach every course with a positive attitude and a desire to gain something from it.  Try to make as many connections as you can, both within and between subjects, particularly to things you are interested in.  (Who does this historical figure remind me of in my own family?) This will help you retain more information and again increase your overall interest level.

Don’t be afraid to read, read, and read!

Don’t be afraid to spend time on your efforts.  Looking to do the minimum will never get you to the top.

Remember – Yes you can!

Do you need help to get there?  I would love to help you along the way as your personal educational coach.LTLTutoring_eighth_gueAUG16-01

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